Anecdotes & Musings

Thanksgiving Thoughts 2018…

Five Keys to a More Positive Outlook… This just seemed appropriate for the Thanksgiving season. 

  • Be thankful. Research shows you can’t be stressed and thankful at the same time
  • Focus on what you get to do each day — instead of what you have to do.
  • Smile. It produces more serotonin in your brain.
  • Exercise daily. It reduces stress and boosts positivity.
  • Get more sleep. You and your body need it.

Source: Jon Gordon’s Weekly Newsletter (9/10/18) via Bob Bly

A belated Happy Thanksgiving to all! — Uncle Daryl


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On joining the “Laid Off Twice” club…

Here is a reply to a post by Cubert at Abandoned Cubicle regarding layoffs… which somehow seems appropriate for Labor Day…


Best damn thing that happened to me – twice. The first time got me thinking about starting my own business — the second time (a dozen years are) cinched it.

Thirty+ years of running my own consulting engineering firm was great – much better than another thirty+ years of cubicle life!

The first layoff came two years out of college, with a very pregnant wife. Fortunately, soon found another job, but the experience profoundly affected me. I became a frugal Mr. Money Mustache (a fellow blogging engineer) of the 1970s.

I also started planning my escape – whatever it was going to be. Dropped the MSEE studies. Got practical — took a class on TV repair (not practical today), followed by getting a Master Electrician’s license (a bit more practical.) The goal — be able to put food on the table for a now growing family.

Stepped in up a bit when a friend (who became my business partner) and I started moonlighting. Got my PE (Professional Engineer) license, something I had blown off in school. Spent time learning and doing, not wasting time on TV or sports events.

Even made a career change to Sales Engineering to hone my business skills. 

The second layoff came twelve years later with a startup. After providing much needed help with sales and marketing, got laid off (OK – fired) after 18 months when the founder’s buddy joined the company. (The buddy that did not have the cojones to do so at the start. )

Oh well — it was a “learning experience.” That means it cost me, was painful at the time, but in retrospect worth it for the experience gained. Plus it vastly improved my BS detector.

So I hung out my consulting shingle. Bad way to start a business — I lasted about three months before climbing back into the corporate womb. Was not FI (Financially Independent) and could not generate income fast enough. But even more determined to have my own consulting business.

Socked money away, and started creating credibility and visibility via writing and teaching. When it became apparent layoff number three might be on the horizon, I made my JumpToConsulting.

That was in October 1987 — the day the stock market crashed. But once again I survived, and was now OI (Occupationally Independent.) Thanks to hard work, frugal living, a very supportive spouse, and a bit of luck I achieved full FI status a few year later. 

The last 30 years have been a blast. I’ve traveled the world solving problems and teaching classes in my engineering speciality. In 2010 I started a blog (JumpToConsulting) to help guide others who might be so inclined to pursue this path to independence.

In 2015, my business partner and good friend of 40 years passed away, and I decided to wind the consulting practice down. I still do about 6-8 projects a year, mainly training which I love to do.    

Now semi-retired, I split my time between MN (where there are grandkids) and AZ (where there is no snow.). With LI (Location Independence), I achieved the “hat trick” of FI/OI/LI.  


Those are MY layoff stories. Last fall, Cubert and I met for coffee in MN. I encouraged him (and encourage all of you) to make your dreams real. Frugal living and focused hard work pay off. 

Independence rocks — Uncle Daryl


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Rest in Peace… Senator John McCain…

As an Arizona resident, John McCain has been my Senator for 22 years. I did not always agree with him, but I always had great respect for him.

I was greatly annoyed by the smear by “W” against him in South Carolina in 2000, when the story was spread that he had fathered a black child. I was in South Carolina at the time on business, and saw the local news stories.

The truth is he and his wife had adopted an infant with a birth defect from Bangladesh. She was their youngest daughter. In spite of the racist lie, he was gracious in the resulting loss of the primary.

Although I never met Senator McCain, his office responded quickly and politely whenever I wrote about an issue — even when we disagreed. Not always true of other politicians.

Here is a favorite personal McCain story:

Shortly after moving to Arizona from Minnesota, I found myself sitting behind the late Senator Paul Wellstone (MN) on a flight to Minneapolis. BTW, we were both in coach. Wellstone, like McCain, was not pretentious.

As we were retrieving our bags from overhead, I told Senator Wellstone I was a former constituent, as well as an admirer of his willingness to fight for what he deemed right.

He asked where I now lived, and I replied “Arizona — where the politics are clearly not the same as Minnesota.” I’d already seen enough of Arizona politics to make me question my move.

Wellstone thought a minute, and then replied, “You know, you have a good man there in John McCain.” Political opposites, both often worked together with mutual respect.

As I soon learned, Wellstone was right. McCain spoke truth to those in power. He condemned torture, spoke out against racism (No ma’am, Senator Obama is not an Arab…), and criticized dirty politicians.

He was truly an officer and a gentleman, an increasingly rare breed.

Rest in peace, Senator McCain.


P.S. Sorry if I stepped on any political toes (no, not really…) As consultants, we often need to “call them as we seem them” … just as John McCain did.


 

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Do You Have The Courage To Quit Your Job?

So asked fellow blogger Cubert at Abandoned Cubicle in a recent post. Cubert is a 40 something engineer who is (by design) a year from Financial Independence and retirement.

In this post, he expresses concerns about being bored and more in retirement. Perfectly normal to get the jitters as one approaches the cliff.  Remember the same feelings myself, but with the parachute strapped on my back, I JumpedToConsulting and never looked back.

Here are my comments of encouragement:

Quit my corporate job 31 years ago to start an engineering consulting practice. It has been a blast, and I would do it again in a heartbeat.

Was it retirement? No, but it WAS freedom from the cubicle and all the attendant corporate BS. On second thought, maybe it was a form of early retirement.

And while now winding down in my 70s, I still do 6-8 projects a year — of my choosing. Keeps me professionally engaged and brings in fun money.

Did I miss the paychecks? No. While the business income fluctuated, I drew a modest fixed salary and watched expenses like a hawk. Banked the profits in investments and tax deferred retirement accounts.

To begin, I stashed away enough to go six months without pay, but never needed it. Was back to my old paycheck level in a year, and exceeded it soon after. Was fully financially independent in a few short years.

Did I miss the routine? Hell no. As a consultant, every day brought something new and challenging. No more boring and useless meetings. No more cleaning up messes created by higher-ups in the food chain.

Rather, interesting work that helped improve things for my clients.

Did I miss the prestige? Are you kidding? Never needed it, and am often bemused by those who do. Maybe that is why I was never a good corporate rat.

Not bragging — just offering some encouragement for everyone.

And trust me, Cubert — you won’t be bored. Rather, you will wonder when you ever had the time for a full time job. You may even wonder why you didn’t do so earlier. Best wishes as you transition to your new life!

In a reply, Cubert expressed a specific concern about health insurance. With a young family, a very legitimate concern. My advice here was to purchase the highest deductible policy available, and self-insure the nominal stuff. More below:

The Affordable Care Act makes that simpler, as you can not be denied coverage. I know several independent consultants who have taken advantage of that — one with a congenial heart defect. (Please — no comments from political trolls.)

Cubert also expressed possible interest in consulting in his retirement. As an engineer, that is very doable as his skills and experience are already in demand. More below:

Finally, I invited Cubert, and anyone else interested in consulting, to join us for my new FREE monthly teleconference on consulting. Register Here.


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Happy July 4th…

Once again, it is time to reflect on Independence., and the price others have paid to secure it for all of us. It is why we celebrate the Fourth of July.  

Consulting can also lead to Personal Independence (PI.) It has for me in three ways:

Occupational Independence (OI) – This was the big attraction for me. Chafing under the corporate bit, I finally set myself free 30 years ago.

It has been a most satisfying ride, and I would do it again in a heartbeat. Never looked back. 

Financial Independence (FI) Although not FI when I started, I reached the goal in just a few years. Nothing like running a business to sharpen you financial focus.

Fortunately, I had the support of a willing spouse, and enough money stashed to cover my expenses for a six months to a year. Never had to touch the stash.

–Location Independence (LI) This let me move to AZ with minimal disruption. The kids were grown, weary of cold MN weather, and ready for a new adventure.

Even better, after a few years we ended us splitting our time between MN (where there were now grandkids) and AZ (where there was no snow.). All possible thanks to LI.

Not bragging — just offering some simple encouragement.  Happy Fourth of July!


Remember — Uncle Daryl want YOU… to find your Independence too.

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It seemed like a good idea at the time…

Wonder how many times I’ve said that?  Enough that I told Mary (my wife) that she can add that to my headstone 🙂

Yes, not everything I’ve tried worked out as hoped. But enough worked more than well enough. Had I never tried, however, I would not be where I am today.

Support helps. More than once Mary egged me on with “Well, why don’t you try it, and see what happens?”  That included starting a consulting business. I’ve suggested this phrase might be fitting for her headstone.

So don’t fear taking chances. After seven decades on the planet, I’ve learned “You won’t regret what you have done as much as what you have NOT done.”  

But manage risk. Don’t gamble more than you can afford to lose. Have a backup plan. Prepare for the worst, and hope for the best. Then roll the dice, and see what happens.

And remember, not doing anything is still a decision. And it may not be the best one.

In closing, one of the first big chances I took was asking my wife to marry me. We hardly knew each other, but we both decided to “try it and see what happens.”  Yes, “it seemed like a good idea at the time.” 

And it was. We celebrate fifty years together next week. We share two sons and six grandchildren. It has been one grand adventure!

Thanks Mary, and Happy Anniversary. With my love and gratitude — Daryl


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On being professional… a pearl of wisdom…

What does it meant to be a professional? Here is an anecdote from my past:

– Many years ago, I had a question on a contract and asked my attorney “What should I do?”

— He replied, “The decision is yours. My job – as a professional – is to lay out options as clearly as I can. If you still have questions, please ask.”

— He went on, “If you ask what I would do, I can share that. But the decision is still yours, and I will respect whatever you decide.”

I have shared that story many times with my engineering clients. To me, this is the essence of being professional.

P.S. The same attorney also told me, “Please ask before you sign anything you don’t understand. I’d rather keep you our of jail than get you out of jail.” Liked that advice too 🙂


With summer approaching, now shifting to twice monthly for posts. This also frees up some time for other things, such as the long planned FREE monthly teleconference. 

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My top 5 mistakes as a consultant…

Making mistakes are part of starting and growing any business (including consulting firms.) In fact, if you’re not making some mistakes, you’re probably not trying hard enough — nor are you learning.

Here are five mistakes I’ve made:

(1) Not sticking to the knitting – Back in the late 1990s, we got caught up in the dot-com frenzy. When a colleague approached us about collaborating on a web portal, we jumped right in. After all, we didn’t want to miss the boom.

If didn’t take too long before the boom went thud. But not until we had spent thousands of dollars for a software developer, and hundreds of hours trying to sell ads to pay for it. We even took out a booth at a trade show, secretly hoping Microsoft might buy us out.

It became obvious this business did not fit with our consulting practice. We had no leverage. It really belonged with a magazine where they could add it to their advertising options.

So we sold it. Remember the trade show booth? One publisher had expressed interest, so we approached them about partnering. They countered with an offer to buy us out. Done deal, and everybody was happy. We even escaped with the shirts on our backs.

Lesson learned — stick with what you do best, and make sure anything new fits with your existing business.

(2) Not paying attention to receivables – When we started, we provided contract instruction for a training company (no longer in business.) They were a major client, and kept us pretty busy.

Everything went fine for a couple years. Then they started to slip in paying their invoices. Pretty soon they owed us a about $25K, which included both time (soft cash) and expenses (hard out of pocked cash.) About that time, we discovered they owed all of their contract instructors similar amounts.

After a brief panic, we got mildly aggressive about getting paid. We liked the work, and didn’t want to antagonize them, but we still needed to get paid. It took a year or more with continued pressure to get their account current.

Not long after that, the training company filed for bankruptcy, effectively stiffing many other instructors. As much we liked working with them, we no longer extended credit — all jobs were “payment in advance.”  It soured the relationship, but it saved our bank account.

Lesson learned — watch your receivables, and enforce payment. You are not a bank.

(3) Not getting a deposit – This one blindsided us, and cost about $10K in lost time and travel expenses. It was a small company, and they were in a panic. So we dropped everything to fight their fire.

Unfortunately, before getting paid they went bankrupt. Our invoice fell within a 90 day window, which meant the payment was denied by the courts. Had we been paid, it would have been “clawed back.” All completely legal.

The bankruptcy itself was a sham. The small company was owned by an equity firm (affiliated with a certain past presidential candidate from Utah.)

They put several firms in bankruptcy after shifting assets. It stunk to high heaven, but there was nothing we could do. We eventually got ten cents on the dollar, which paid our  lawyer.

Losing the travel expenses was really annoying. Not only did they steal our time, they stole our money.

Our lawyer suggested getting a travel advance from everyone, or even the full fee in advance. Apparently if you don’t extend credit, the advance payments can’t be “clawed back.” (Check with your own attorney on this.)

Incidentally, this has not been a major problem. In 30 years, we only lost money twice, and had one close call as discussed in Lesson #2. But I still get an advance deposit prior to travel (typically $2500.)

Lesson learned – get a deposit prior to travel.  If worried, get progress payments or full payment in advance.

(4) Not controlling our own training programs – After a few years of consulting, we decided to offer our own training programs, based on solving the problems we were seeing. Clients began asking for this to avoid future problems, and we decided to add classes to our services. It took several attempts to get this right.

We started by collaborating with a test lab with moderate results. Their emphasis was on testing and regulations, while our was on design. So we split the time for our first class.

The initial feedback showed much higher interest in how to prevent and fix problems, while the testing interest was more esoteric. It was bit touchy, but we decided to go on our own. We did, however, remain good friends with the test lab and collaborated on other projects.

Later, we approached a test equipment vendor about adding us to their seminar program. Working with their field sales personnel, we presented two multi-day seminars which were well received.

We promoted via highly targeted direct mail, and that worked well. We then wrote a white paper with recommendations on how to proceed.

Unfortunately, their marketing department had their own ideas. They spent a ton of money on a fancy promotion with almost zero results. No second chance – they had blown the budget.

So after licking our wounds, we offered to run the program. We would pay for the direct mail promotions, prepare and print the materials, and present the classes. They would provide meeting space and local support, but at no cost to them.

If finally worked. We trained over 10,000 students with that project, netting us $12-15 million. Not too bad for a couple of goofy consulting engineers just having fun.

Lessons learned – take control when needed (and don’t give up.)

(5) Not appreciating barriers to entry – Already addressed this in a previous post, but it bears repeating.

This little adventure took place during out “part-time” consulting phase. It took place in 1981, in the early days of the personal computers. We were still very green about consulting, but willing to experiment and learn.

We developed a three hour seminar on using personal computers for business for a local vocational school. The initials offerings were highly successful, so with the schools permission we decided to do a full day version which we promoted at ran our expense.

But instead of the 80 people like our last class, 3 showed up. What happened ??? Unknown to us, a new computer store decided to promote their business with FREE seminars. How do you compete with free? You don’t.

Thus ended our computer seminar adventure. We learned about barriers to entry. As I groused to my business partner over beer, “We’re engineers. Never again will I go into a business where some kid in a computer store can eat my lunch.”

Our later training programs took an engineer with several years of experience, along with the ability to actually teach (another barrier.)

Lesson Learned – First figure out the barriers to entry. Then use them.

There have been other mistakes over the years, but these were the biggest ones. We always looked at our mistakes as learning experiences. As such, we paid our tuition and gained new knowledge in how to run our consulting firm.

Closing thought –  My late business partner often mused, “I never make the same mistake twice. It often takes me three or four times until I realize what I’m doing wrong.” And then we would laugh and move on.


RIP Herr Kimmel – It has now been three years since you left and stuck me with this crazy engineering consulting firm. So here is a toast – which I hope is wrong 🙂 

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Jumping ship as a path to Consulting…

Here is a comment I made over at Abandoned Cubicle regarding making more money from your cubicle job. I mentioned Cubert once before, as he quietly (and anonomously) plots his course towards Financial Independence.

In this post, Cubert recommends negotiating your salary. Many people (particularly engineers like Cubert and me) can be reluctant to do so. But if you don’t ask, you don’t get!

He also recommends jumping ship if you are still unhappy. It took me a while to figure that out, but once I did it made a big difference. Thus, my story on jumping ship:

Good advice. By jumping ship into my last corporate job (over 30 years ago) I doubled my income the following year. And I got to work for a great company and a great boss.

How did I double? Moved back into sales engineering. My new base salary was the same as my old salary, plus I now got commissions, bonuses, and a company car. And it was great preparation for starting my own engineering consulting firm several years later.

So I heartily agree with jumping ship if you are unhappy with your compensation. And I heartily recommend technical sales or better yet, starting your own firm. Sure worked well for me.

The bottom line. We are all responsible for our own careers. If unhappy, take charge — don’t wait for others. And don’t be afraid to stretch yourself (as I did when I went into sales engineering — and later into consulting.)

For therein lies the path to Independence (Financial, Occupational, Location, and more…)


P.S. Interested in consulting?  Check out my FREE webinar recently done for the IEEE (Institute of Electrical and Electronic Engineers), my technical society.  Watch it Here. 

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Just Say No…

Sometimes just saying NO is the best thing you can do. It worked for me when at a career fork in the road 33 years ago.

The post was inspired by Cubert at Abandoned Cublicle.  Cubert is a young family man on his quest to financial independence, who blogs about his journey. For obvious reasons, he keeps his identity private.

Here is my reply to his most recent blog post on saying NO: 

Here is a favorite personal “NO” story:

Started a new job with a great boss. Like me, an engineer, and who also had an MBA. He kindly encouraged me to do the same, as the company would fully reimburse for the MBA. The school had an excellent reputation, and many years later my older son got his MBA at the same school.

But I had this terrible itch to start my own engineering consulting firm. Not yet FI (financially independent,) I was seeking OI (occupational independence.) BTW, the OI soon led to FI. It also led to LI (location independence.) Funny how those things work out.

Back to the story. After one class, which I enjoyed, it was apparent my fellow students were primarily interested in climbing the corporate ladder. I was not. So I said “NO” to the MBA, and devoted my time to learning how to start my own firm while beginning to build a client base through moonlighting. (BTW, I was VERY careful to avoid conflicts of interest.)

Three years later, about the time I would have received the MBA, I hung out my consulting shingle. That was 30 years ago, and I NEVER regretted saying NO the the MBA. Instead, I said YES to what I wanted to do. Not only satisfying, it has been financially quite rewarding.

Finally, this is not a knock on MBAs or any other degrees. (Both sons have advanced degrees that have served them well.) But just make sure they will take you where you want to go. And don’t be afraid to say NO.

I had the pleasure of coffee with Cubert recently when in MN* – he is well on his way to independence. Way.to.go. If you are interested in independence (FI, OI, FI, or ???) hop over to his blog.  Stick around here and I’ll share my advice too.

* For 20 years , LI for me has meant winters in AZ and summers in MN – another bonus of saying NO.


Today’s Take-away – Saying NO to something means saying YES to something else…


Here are some past posts you may find relevant to this post:

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Showing some gratitude…

Thanksgiving is here again, and it is good to show gratitude. Sadly, that seems to be lacking in today’s polarized world. But here are some things I am grateful for:

My parents — Although both gone, they poured their love into my brother and me, and offered us the encouragement to be whatever we wanted to be. Thanks, Mom and Dad!

My wife Friend, confidant, life-partner, and lover for almost 50 years. Without your support, I would not be writing about my consulting adventures. Thanks, Mary!

My sons —  You both make us proud, not only of your accomplishments, but also for the wonderful fathers and husbands you have become. Thanks Darren and Chris!

My grandchildren — You brought us joy, and the hope and promise of a bright future for the world. Thanks Raymond, Maxine, Thomas, Joseph, Chloe, and Charles!

My little mutt Who knew 18 pounds of fur could bring so much happiness? And who rescued who anyway? Keep wagging that tail, Sami!

My clients — It has been a sincere pleasure to work with you. Not only have you allowed me to live a dream life, you have taught me so much. Thanks to each and everyone of you!

My colleagues –– Your gracious sharing of information and ideas enhanced my abilities to serve my clients. Thanks especially to my late business partner Bill, may you rest in peace!

My advisors You guidance has kept me on the path to success and prosperity, which I now enjoy in my “golden years.” Thanks to all of you!

My friends — Last, but not least, thanks of all of my friends over the years – many who are in the above categories. Thanks for the simple gift of friendship!

In closing, here is a quote I recently ran across:

Gratitude, like faith, is a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it grows, and the more power you have to use it on your behalf.

If you do not practice gratefulness, its benefaction will go unnoticed, and your capacity to draw on its gifts will be diminished.

To be grateful is to find blessings in everything. This is the most powerful attitude to adopt, for there is a blessing in everything.

— Alan Cohen

Happy Thanksgiving to all! — Uncle Daryl

P.S. So what are you grateful for this Thanksgiving?


P.S. Here are three Thanksgiving related posts:

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Bigotry and business don’t mix…

Time for a mini-rant… While I try to stay politically neutral, this seems particularly appropriate these days… 

Don’t mix business with bigotry!

Last year I read about a pizza place that was under fire for saying they would not serve at a gay wedding. Then they whined that the press was out to crucify them. Really?

What if they had refused to serve Blacks…or Jews…or ??? Didn’t we get over that in the last century? (Based on recent events, maybe not…)

Furthermore, how foolish! With the country equally divided on so many social issues, why alienate half your potential customers?

But let’s be positive.

What would have happened if they said they WOULD serve such customers? Let me share the Pittsburgh Willy story.

In 2012, I wrote about Randy’s success as a successful Arizona hot-dog entrepreneur. Yes, he is not a consultant, but I love his hot dogs… and his stories.

One of my favorite stories was how Randy became a preferred vendor in the local gay community. Sorry to say, Arizona is not the friendliest place for gays. But when asked to support the Gay Rights parade several years ago, he readily agreed.

He and a friend even carried a banner. He joked they were a minority — perhaps the only two straight guys in the parade. Later he served gourmet dogs from his hot dog cart to a hungry crowd – the only hot dog vendor to do so. Pretty good business decision, huh?

In addition to being a good businessman, Randy is an very friendly and funny guy. So when asked to support a gay event in Bisbee AZ, once again he agreed. He was the only hot dog vendor invited to the event. As an aside, one of his gourmet hot dogs – the Big Willie – was a huge hit 🙂

Randy graduated from the hot dog stand, and has since opened a restaurant in Chandler, AZ. The dogs are great, and EVERYBODY is welcome there. Just good business!

So as a consultant (or any other businessperson) I suggest you do not tolerate discrimination or hate of any kind.  DON’T add bigotry to the mix! 

<End of rant>

P.S. If this post offended you, don’t consult. If you can’t look beyond your own views, you don’t have what it takes to succeed as a consultant.

(More here from folk musicians Peter, Paul, and Mary.) 

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An Interesting Quote…

Picked this quote up from a consulting blog I follow:

We learn from the top 10% of our highest performing clients. For the other 90% of clients, we need to lead.

While the author is a management consultant (and self-proclaimed non-technologist), it also applies to technical consultants.

P.S. Keep learning. And remember to feed BOTH bank accounts.  

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Lessons in Leadership…

Last week I got some lessons in leadership. Not from a client, but from a chance meeting with the mayor of a small city in Indiana.

Some background…

In town to teach an engineering class, I decided to stay at a Bed and Breakfast. A history buff, it was great fun to stay in a historic mansion built in 1859. That alone would have been enough, but the host was also an avid fan of history. And he was the mayor.

The mayor has now been in office five years. Like me, he has a background in small business. When elected, the city had their share of challenges. But thanks to his leadership, planning, and hard work, things are much improved.

Last year I was elected to an HOA (Home Owner’s Association) board. The community is aging and has numerous challenges. As such, I’ve been involved in politics at a very local level, calling on my business and consulting skills.

The two common area of interest — history and politics — led to some interesting discussions and sharing of ideas. The last night we stayed up to midnight. Kind of reminded me of my college days.

Some lessons…

Here are some pearls of wisdom he shared. The first dealt with attitudes, and he coined a simple mantra:

  •  Leaders solve problems
  •  Leaders serve people

He even created a medallion that he passes out to his team and others to remind them of this underlying philosophy. He gave me one, which now occupies an honored place in my office.

He also shared a quote from St. Francis of Assisi:

Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.

As consultants, we are called to leadership — both advising leaders and providing our own leadership. I hope you find these simple lessons as inspiring and refreshing as I did.

P.S. If you are ever in or near Huntington, Indiana (20 miles from Fort Wayne) I heartily recommend the Purviance House. Brooks and Barb Fetters are gracious hosts. If you like history, you will love talking to Brooks. And you will surely enjoy Barb’s wonderful breakfasts!

I hope to make it back — next time with Mrs. JumpToConsulting.

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Consulting Fee Study – 2017…

Here is a link to a recent fee study by Consulting Success.

While this blog focuses on general business consulting, technical consultants should find this of use as well.

FYI, typical fees at Kimmel Gerke Associates were project based. Typical projects were in the $5,000 – $20,000 range and up. Typical annual compensations exceeded our corporate salaries, plus providing retirement funding, profits, and tax benefits.

As such, we did better than staying “employed.” Plus we had a lot more fun and freedom.

Not bragging — just saying it can be done. But it doesn’t happen overnight or without some work. You first need to build “credibility and visibility.”

Never too soon to start the process, so ask “What can I do TODAY?” Best wishes…


Here are three posts to help you start…


P.S. May slow down here for the summer, but stay tuned as I continue to share  thoughts on making your own JumpToConsulting.

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That’s what partners are for…

Two years ago this week my good friend and business partner of 40 years passed away from cancer. Time has softened the pain, but the sense of loss is still there.

While I generally recommend against partners, our partnership worked very well. We often mused about why it worked, when we had seen so many others fail.

Were we just lucky, or was there more?

Upon reflection, here are seven reasons:

(1) Respect – Neither of us tried to “boss” the other – it was a partnership of equals. We respected opinions, even when they were different. We checked our egos at the door.

We recognized the old saying, “If two people agree on everything, one of them is redundant.”

(2) Maturity – We were both in our 40s when we went into full-time consulting. We had achieved a level of business maturity. Not saying you can’t consult at a younger age, but a few gray hairs (or even no hair) can actually make age a friend.

As the late Howard Shenson said, “The forties are a good time to start consulting. By that time, you know what you are good at and like, and what you are poor at and don’t like. The secret is to focus on former, and ignore the latter.”

(3) Experience – We both brought unique experiences to the firm. Although we were both Electrical Engineers with similar technical experiences, Bill had management experience and I had sales/marketing experience.

As such we complemented each other in those two critical areas. Over the years, we both learned a LOT from each other as well.

(4) Honesty – Having both been burned by unscrupulous colleagues in the past, we pledged never to do that to each other. Nor to our clients. Integrity matters.

We followed the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

(5) Longevity – For ten years, we worked together part time. So by the time we went full time, we already knew we worked well together.

We knew each other’s strengths, so we could take advantage of them. We also knew each others jokes 🙂

(6) Humor – Very important, we shared a sense humor. Often mildly cynical, neither of us took things too seriously. We joked and laughed a lot — even after the occasional disaster.

Our wives would often shake their heads as we rehashed some of those disasters.

(7) Support – On more than one occasion, we backed each other up – with very little notice.

When Bill lost his voice midway through a class, I was on a flight that night to rescue him. When my mother-in-law had a stroke, he jumped in and rescued me.

No apologies were ever needed. As Bill was fond of saying, “That’s what partners are for…”

So what final advice can I offer on partners? Proceed VERY carefully — I’ve seen too many cases turn into disasters. Use the seven reasons above as a checklist.

But I’ve also seen successes. My attorneys, my accountant, my financial advisor, and my doctor are in small practices and enjoy the camaraderie and support of congenial partners.

 Like a good marriage, if you can make a partnership work, it can be wonderful. But like a bad marriage, the disasters can be devastating. 

P.S. With Bill’s loss, I decided to cut back on the consulting. His passing was a grim reminder that life is not infinite. But I have great memories with my business partner, and would not trade them for anything.

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Urgent vs Important…

Got this from a newsletter to HOA (Home Owners Association) board members. Struck me as such a good idea I decided to share it here.

It is called the Eisenhower principle. In a 1954 speech, US President Eisenhower said:

I have two kinds of problems: urgent and important. The urgent are (often) not important, and the important are never urgent.

Eisenhower recognized one must be effective as well as efficient. We need to spend time on the important things — not just the urgent ones. To wit:

  • Important activities have outcomes that lead to achieving our goals.
  • Urgent activities demand immediate attention, and typically involve somebody else’s goals. However, the consequences of not dealing with them can be critical.

To use this principle, list all of the activities you need to address, no matter how unimportant. Next, prioritize the activities (1-10) Then put each activity in on of the four following categories.

Schedule activities based on the following:

  • Category I – HIGH urgency and HIGH importance — DO IT NOW
  • Category II – HIGH urgency and LOW importance – DELEGATE IT
  • Category III – LOW urgency and HIGH importance – SCHEDULE IT
  • Category IV – LOW urgency and LOW importance – DUMP IT

Eisenhower was highly productive his entire life. Prior to being the 34th US President (1953-1961) he was the Supreme Commander of Allied Forces in Europe (Five Star General), served as President of Columbia University and was the first Supreme Commander of NATO. And he still found time to golf and paint.

This simple tool is useful to both you (as a consultant) and your clients. Thanks Ike!

P.S. Visited the Eisenhower Library in Abilene KS last year. Well worth the visit if you are a history buff like I am.

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It’s not enough to solve problems…

Got this pearl of wisdom over dinner with a client.

A fellow engineer who had become a director for a defense contractor, we were discussing how engineers were attracted to solving problems. He paused, and said:

“It is is not enough to merely solve problems. We must anticipate them as well. Something I always emphasized to engineers working for me.”

Although I had never heard it stated that way, I realized he was absolutely right.

This insight applies to consultants as well!

— Thanks Bert Newman (who eventually started his own firm in retirement.)

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On handling “stumbles”…

Here is a reply I left at one of my favorite blogs/web sites —  Pamela Slim — a champion of starting and building small businesses (not just consulting.)

In her post, Pamela discusses how to react after a “stumble,” including her own examples.

She asked for comments, so I shared mine:

One of the best pieces of advice I got on “stumbling” was shared with me almost forty years ago. As a brand new sales engineer (I had pivoted from ten years of design work) my boss sent me to a sales training class.

During a break, I asked a a more experienced classmate how he handled losing a sale.

His reply was “Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on. ”

He went on, “Furthermore, if you’re not failing (stumbling), you are not trying hard enough. Every failure is a learning experience. After twenty years, I still lose sales but I’m doing just fine. ”

Ten years later, that advice was invaluable when I started my own engineering consulting firm. Actually, I started twice, and the first time I stumbled badly.

But I tried again later, and then the first day in business (1987) the stock market crashed. Scary, but I succeeded anyway.

That same advice sustained me again when my late business partner and I started a training operation in conjunction with the consulting. It took us four times to get that right.

We eventually ended training over 12,000 students in hundreds of multi-day classes around the world. What a blast! Glad we didn’t let a few stumbles stop us from that adventure.

Pam is so right! Don’t stop – just step back and figure out what to do next — and next — and next. It took Thomas Edison hundreds of trials until he got the light bulb right. But when he did, he lit the world.

Yes, I’ve discussed this topic here before, but it is worth hearing again.  Remember the jingle we all heard as kids, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

But before you do, back off and evaluate.  You may need to try something different. As Albert Einstein said, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.”

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What if it doesn’t work? At least you tried…

Probably the NUMBER ONE QUESTION if you are standing on the edge of the cliff, about ready to make your own JumpToConsulting.

So, what if it doesn’t work? The brother of Go-Daddy founder Bob Parsons once told him, “Well, if it doesn’t work, they can’t eat you.” Parsons is now a billionaire.

Incidentally, web registration was the backup plan for Go-Daddy — the original plan was on-line tax software. Always good to have Plan B!

Full disclosure — my son (a catalyst for this blog) was their Controller when Go-Daddy was just starting out. He has great stories about working for Parsons, and might have stayed but moved back to Minnesota for personal/family reasons.

My son has since gone on to several more entrepreneurial adventures – including a stint consulting – which ended when a client made him an offer he couldn’t refuse as a VP of Finance.

Probably the simplest solution is to climb back into the corporate womb. I did that myself after a false start. Got laid off (fired actually) from a startup, so I hung out my shingle.

Not good planning. After three months, it was clear this was not going to work — at least for now. My “Plan B” was to find another job, which I did.

But the itch was still there, so three years later I tried again — and succeeded — even though the stock market crashed the first day in business. Thanks to the first try, however, I was much better prepared.

But what if you are successful, and just don’t like it? There is no law that says you must stay a consultant forever. As a bonus — you are likely valued more by your new employer.

Here are two more examples:

Dave specialized in EMI/EMC engineering (electromagnetic interference and compatibility) as I did. He started several years before me, and built a successful practice.

Shortly after I made my jump, I ran into him at a trade show. He was now working for a company. Concerned, I asked him why.

“Why the move?” I asked. “And is there something I need to know?”

“No, not at all,” he replied. “A client made me a very attractive offer. Besides, I was getting tired of having to hustle for business. This new move is a dream job for me, but I only got it due the visibility of consulting.”

Dave did quite well in his new position and enjoyed in immensely.

Steve, another engineer, was a talented writer and editor of a technical magazine. We met through my efforts to write articles (a favorite marketing method) and stayed in touch.

Several years after I started JumpToConsulting, Steve hung out his consulting shingle as technical marketer. We shared ideas, and thanks to his talent, hard work, and contacts, he was very successful within a year.

But then Steve stopped consulting. Concerned, once again I asked why.

“What happened,” I asked.

” Well,” he said, “I discovered I really like working with a team, and not all by myself. I miss the camaraderie.”

So like Dave, he went to work for a favorite client. He quickly moved onward and upward in his career.

(Edit – After his company cut back, Steve is back consulting. Much easier to start up the second time.)

Some lessons learned here:

  • You don’t need to be a consultant forever.
  • You may be seen as more valuable for your experience.
  • You have visibility to many more opportunities than had you stayed where you were at in the first place.

The downside is that once having tasted freedom it may be tough to go back. (It would be for me.) But given the right opportunity, maybe not. Careers can be funny that way.

P.S. Tagged this post in “Success Stories.” Even though all three examples eventually left full time consulting, they did so after trying and succeeding. No doubt they could do it again!

“Better to have consulted and quit, than to never have consulted at all.” 

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